Nothing turns women off more than a guy who is really needy
Regarding the perils of dating and relationships,
the one journey women say is that they never want to go on again is meeting and
hanging out with the "needy and clingy" man.
Men, below are ten signs that you are being needy. Remember you are trying to attract women,
not turn them off. So if you suffer from any of these signs of neediness, you need to
immediately stop those actions.
1. You just walked a woman to her door at the end of a date. Instead of kissing her, you
ask her if she had a good time. Women are attracted to confident men. They don't want to
have to tell you that they had a good time on a date ... they want you to be secure enough
in yourself to assume that they had a good time.
2. You called a woman last night and she has not yet called you back, so you either email
her or call her again to ask her if she received your message. If you want to push her
away, this is one of the best ways to get her to quickly run away from you.
3. You start texting a woman you just began dating five or six times a day. You are
over-texting her. You don't need to check in every two hours. That's a sign of neediness
and clingy behavior that turns women off.
4. You miss a call on your cell phone from a phone number that you don't recognize. You
call the woman you're dating, and to whom you talked just two hours before, and ask, "Did
you just call me?" This kind of behavior is going to push and scare her away.
5. You agree with everything the woman you're dating says. Women are not looking for a man
who agrees with everything they say. Women want a man who challenges them and from whom
they can learn. When a man agrees with everything a woman says, he is telling her that
he'll do anything to have a relationship (which is another sign of being needy).
6. The woman you're dating is out for the evening with her friends. She promised to call
you when she got home. It's getting late and you haven't heard from her. You just can't
resist and you call her cell phone several times until she answers it. This is a sign of
being needy and insecure. She's out with her friends ... not out with another guy. Let her
have some personal space and she'll respect you more.
7. You are too available. If you have plans with a friend, keep those plans even if the
woman you're dating asks you to do something that night. Women don't want men who are like
a 7-Eleven -- convenient and ready 24/7.
8. You try to please a woman all the time. I'm all about men doing nice things for women,
but she has to earn it. Some men will let a woman walk all over them, and then continue to
be a sponge and allow it over and over again. Stand up for yourself and she'll respect you
more. Letting a woman walk all over you is a clear sign to her that you're needy.
9. Don't be afraid to challenge a woman. If you don't agree with something a woman says,
don't just sit there and agree with her thinking it's what she wants. Women are looking
for someone who is going to stimulate their mind ... not bore them. Women are not turned on
by men they can completely control.
10. Be the man! Have a plan and stick with it. Women like men who plan out evenings of
fun.
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