Things Guests Should Never Do Whether with family or friends, be the best guest you can be any holiday season. Here are 10 easy ways to get nominated for the best guest hall of fame. 1. Don't ask "Can I bring anything?" Call your host and ask "What can I bring?" instead. This shows you are committed to helping and not simply being dutiful. 2. Don't sport jeans Vans and a faded tee can be hip and cute, but this is a holiday party, folks, not a Ben Harper concert. So dust off those shiny shoes and put in a little effort. 3. Don't come empty handed Even if it's a framed pic of your host in his Halloween pirate getup, bring it on. Hosts don't forget funny or thoughtful gifts. If irreverent isn't your thing, a good bottle of wine is always nice. Extra points: Buy it at a wine shop and ask about region and a couple of defining characteristics so you can let the host know what you're giving them. 4. Don't just sit there Yeah, it's nice to put your feet up (not literally), but nicer to help your host. Don't make it a half-hearted offer, either. Be aware of the host's needs. If they don't want help, don't push it, but offer again during the evening. 5. Don't hog the eggnog Nothing says "you're a fabulous cook" like a second helping, but sharing is caring. Don't divvy yourself up more than your fair lot the first time around the table. 6. Don't dish out empty compliments If the turkey is dry and the mashed is cold, don't say it's the best turkey and mashed you've ever had. Find something you truly enjoy and make your compliment sincere. 7. Don't steal the spotlight There's nothing worse than the one person at the table who is stealing the show like a runaway train. It's great to add cheer and contribute, but even better to practice the balance of listening and glistening. 8. Don't sit on the sidelines If charades is your worst nightmare, give yourself a little push. Don't go first, but do not opt out. You'll bring down the mood and disappoint the host. 9. Don't overstay your welcome Don't be the first to leave to bolt but there's no reason to be the last. 10. Don't forget to say "thanks" A simple thank-you note can do wonders for your guest hall of fame efforts. Don't wait. The very next day write a short and sweet note commenting on a few specifics of the evening. Back to the "Top 10 Lists" Main Page